Thanks to online shopping, my purchases were virtually complete. I asked my family what they wanted, and then I bought a few perfect presents (within my budget, of course).
But after the shopping was complete, I needed to plan how we’d spend Christmas break together.
For. Two. Whole. Weeks.
I didn’t want to waste precious time in front of a screen or do pointless things, so I decided to think ahead. After all, failing to plan is planning to fail, right?
Believe it or not, I do actually get excited about breaks.
I look forward to all the breaks from school and homework, for all of us. It’s a welcome relief from an all-too-often insane schedule, and we need the rest. But if I am honest, I’m usually a little too happy when school starts back.
But, when school’s in, we’re so busy that we don’t truly enjoy each other. And I realize it’s not fun to be around a mom (or wife) who is constantly barking orders to hurry up, get in the car, clean your room, help me with dinner, fold the laundry, etc.
So, I decided our Christmas break this year was going to be different.
Thankfully, my office was officially closed while my kids were home. So, it was up to me to make the gift of time with my family really count.
Instead of trying to guess what my family wanted, I decided to ask — the same way I asked about their Christmas list.
“What would you like to do with me during your Christmas vacation? Make a list of everything, and we’ll try to make it happen.”
It didn’t take long for me to find out what they wanted. In fact, I really already knew. It’s probably the same thing your family wants: UNDISTRACTED TIME.
Whether you officially have “time off” or not, whether it’s a holiday or not, you can still make all their wishes come true in some way. Find out how to spend the time you DO have with the ones you love — then make the most of it.
Just in case you’re wondering exactly what my kids desired from me during our break, here’s a sample of what we did over Christmas vacation:
My youngest child did my makeup (and hair). We read and sang together, shopped, and enjoyed cocoa and marshmallows by the fire. We created delicious food in the kitchen, played games and worked puzzles. We went ice skating and got coffee and doughnuts. And there was still be plenty of time to watch movies and sleep in.
This year, I’m going to make memories and intentionally enjoy my family. I have a feeling we could get used to these “things” that are not really “things.”
I can’t wait. And who knows? I just might be a little sad when the kids go back to school.
The countdown to Spring Break begins…