What are your goals for this season? If you want to provide a time and place where people can enjoy the holidays, relax, celebrate relationships, laugh, count their blessings, play, and help create warm memories, you may want to rethink how you’ve always done things and change things up a bit. As the old saying goes, simple is better… and it’s often a lot more fun for everyone involved.
These ideas can help you celebrate with more focus and less fuss.
- Make a list of everything you plan to do. Divide it between must-do, would like to do and not really necessary.
- See what you can mark off your list. For example, maybe you won’t send holiday cards this year. Instead of throwing a holiday party now, put it off until July.
- Let each family member choose a few of their favorite decorations to put out and leave the rest in the closet.
- Participate in alternative gift-giving. Tell everybody that all gifts have to be homemade this year. Challenge your children to be creative and let them do it themselves.
- Donate to the favorite charity of a family member or friend in their honor instead of spending hours at the mall purchasing a gift they don’t really need or want.
- Ask family members to bring a favorite dish to the family gathering instead of doing it all yourself.
The key to enjoying the holidays and feeling good about the way you spend your time and money during the holidays is to make a plan and stick to it. It is important to involve your family in the process, so share your goals with them and discuss ways you would like to simplify. Encourage them to find creative ways to celebrate. Then work your plan together.
Click here to read the entire article, which was originally published in the Chattanooga Times Free Press on November 25, 2018.