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Married Couples

Finding a Safe Haven in Marriage: How Childhood Trauma Affects Intimacy

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General, Married Couples

What Are Marriage Deserts and Why Do They Matter?

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Married Couples

Should I Stay In My Marriage or Leave to Make Myself Happy?

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Dating & Engaged, Married Couples

How to Turn Conflict into Connection

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General, Married Couples

How Caregiving Can Damage Romantic Relationships

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Married Couples

The Number One Phrase Used in Successful Relationships

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Married Couples

Is Your Relationship Stuck in the Negative Override Sentiment?

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Married Couples

Marriage Is Dead… Or Is It? (Part 1)

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Married Couples

Marriage Is Dead… Or Is It? (Part 2)

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Parents & Families

How Carefree Parenting Can Enhance Your Life

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Parents & Families

Could a Social Media Ban Protect Children’s Mental Health?

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Friendships, General, Married Couples, Parents & Families

How Shame Harms Everything in Our Relationships 

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Parents & Families

It Takes a Village, But What Does a “Village” Look Like?

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In-Laws, Parents & Families

Grandparents are a Grand Gift to Thriving Families

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Parents & Families

What We Now Know About Babies, Toddlers, and Screen Time

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Parents & Families

How Parents’ Everyday Interactions Shape Their Kids Friendships

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General, Parents & Families

What Families Fight About (And Why It Matters More Than We Think)

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Parents & Families

What it Means to Be a Lighthouse Parent

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Friendships

When You Don’t Like Your Friend’s Friend

What do you do when you don’t like your friend’s friend? This is a tricky but common situation. And for the record, we aren’t talking about someone in your friend’s life who just rubs you the wrong way. This goes considerably deeper…
July 13, 2021
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Dating & Engaged

3 Reasons We’re Getting Married After Living Together

I'm a man who didn't want to get married. I’ve lived with the mother of my children for 15 years. Fifteen years. Now, I realize the importance of marriage and wish I had gotten married years ago. Reasons I Avoided Marriage I grew up…
October 7, 2021
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Dating & Engaged

What’s the Difference Between Living Together and Marriage

Romantic relationships are full of big decisions. One decision that's gonna present itself is A) Do we move in together? and/or B) Do we get married? 59% of adults under the age of 45 have decided to move in together at some point. Then there's…
June 10, 2021
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Dating & Engaged

Is Living Together Bad for Your Relationship?

You may be trying to decide: Should we move in together? Or perhaps you already live together and have some questions. Is living together bad for your relationship? Is this going to be good or bad for us?  You’ve probably heard lots…
June 4, 2021
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Dating & Engaged

5 Things Every Couple Should Know Before They Move In Together

Living together is pretty common these days. For many, living together is a natural progression in the evolution of their relationship, which may or may not lead to marriage. But it has its own set of complications, and there are things every…
June 3, 2021
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Dating & Engaged

5 Ways Your Relationship Changes After You Get Married

Your wedding was not the most important day in your marriage. Today is. What if I could tell you about the future of your marriage? For the moment, let’s say I can. (Because I can.) Brace yourself, my newlywed friend. I come from over…
February 16, 2021
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Dating & Engaged, Married Couples

Do I Have Post-Wedding Blues?

“Post-Wedding Blues” are absolutely a thing. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. And definitely don’t feel bad for feeling them. You don’t need to be worried or secretly guilt-ridden.  “Blues” are totally understandable.…
February 15, 2021
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Dating & Engaged, Married Couples

10 Creative Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is a great time to get outside the heart-shaped chocolate box and celebrate love and romance in a BIG way! If you want a hand in making this day unique for your Valentine, you’ve come to the right place. These 10 creative…
February 8, 2021
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Dating & Engaged, Married Couples

10 Things You Need to Know About Marriage

If you’re dating, in a long-term relationship, or engaged, you may be wondering what marriage is like. You probably have friends with good marriages and those who have so-so marriages. Perhaps you’ve got questions, but you don’t know…
January 20, 2021
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Dating & Engaged, Married Couples

Is Grit the Secret Ingredient to Successful Relationships?

How gritty are you?  Is your marriage gritty?  Do you teach your kids to be gritty?  In her book Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance, Harvard-trained psychologist and researcher Angela Duckworth examines what…
October 28, 2020
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