There is something deeply calming about believing your relationship is steady. Not perfect. Not conflict-free. Not untouched by stress. Steady. A recent study published in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy found that when couples improved their “relationship confidence” through a relationship education program, they also saw gains in their individual well-being, including mental…

A few weeks ago, I found myself standing in a room full of college students talking about relationships. Some were engaged. Some were dating someone seriously. A few were still figuring out what they wanted. At one point, someone raised their hand and asked a question that made the whole room quiet. “How do you…

Clutter looks harmless until you live with it. It’s the shoes by the door that turn into a pile, the mail that never quite lands in a folder, the laundry that migrates from basket to chair to “I’ll deal with it later.” For some people, that’s background noise. For others, it’s like trying to relax…