October 14, 2022
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tips & tricks for growth
set boundaries with your parents
Youāre learning what it means to be self-sufficient, and your parents are finding out theyāre no longer in control ā to whatever extent they have been. Stress and tensions can rise quickly. Chances are, youāve seen traits in your parents that may not be healthy. Or maybe youāve simply decided to do things differently from your parents. There must be boundaries for your relationship to continue in a healthy way.
This is new territory for you and your parents.
Without healthy boundaries, tension can easily build from things your parent may do like:
- Frequent unexpected visits.
- Offering unsolicited advice about your relationships, social life, or career choices.
- Purchasing items for your home, personal life, and/or children without asking.
- Disregarding your opinions or choices and offering what they think is best for you.
This lack of boundaries can be frustrating. They may have the best intentions, but you must help them understand that youāre an adult.
the many pros behind counseling
Some people feel like going to counseling is like waving a āwhite flagā on their life and represents quitting. āI should be able to handle this! It is, after all, my life! Why do I need someone else poking around in it?ā
Going to counseling is not āgiving up.ā Far from it, it can be an incredibly courageous step and can help you regain control of your life.
Quick Question: Would you be āembarrassedā to take your car in to be seen by a mechanic? If you were diabetic, would you be āembarrassedā to go to a doctor for insulin? Nope. Not at all.
When it comes to mental and emotional health, when it comes to relating to ourselves or to others, the least āembarrassingā thing we can do is see the pros.
let’s get REALatable
It’s time to take things a step further & get a little intimate with a Q&A. What do you say?š Learn a little bit about the faces behind all of this relationship gold. This week we’re chatting withĀ Kelly Brugh, (Our newest addition to #TeamFTF!)Ā wife of 6 years to husband Landon, #dogmama to a chocolate lab, and theĀ Vice President of DevelopmentĀ here at First Things First. Let’s get REALatableš & learn a little bit about her:
Q:Ā Best way to pass time?
A: š¶My husband, Landon, and I love being outside and taking my dog on walks. His name is Roscoe and heās an 8-year-old chocolate lab. Heās getting older, so our walks canāt be too long, but he loves smelling everything in sight. Our favorite places to walk is the Riverwalk and the Walnut Street Bridge.
Q:Ā Your favorite age so far?
A: šĀ My favorite age so far has been 28. I married Landon just before my 29th birthday. Not only did I marry my partner for life, but wedding planning helped me reconnect with family. My father passed away when I was five and we lost touch with his side of the family over the years. We invited my dadās side of the family to our wedding and have kept in touch. My mom and I visited my dadās sister at her home in Phoenix in February. Itās never too late to mend a broken relationship or build a whole new one!
Q:Ā Next place on your travel bucket list?
A: ššFall has always been my favorite season and one of the most beautiful things about growing up in Pennsylvania was watching the leaves change. Itās captivating to see the vibrancy of the colors splayed across the Appalachian Mountains. The next place on my travel bucket list is going to New Hampshire where I hear the fall foliage is even more spectacular! New Hampshire has a fall foliage tracker that can help with planning trips to the Northeast: https://www.visitnh.gov/seasonal-trips/fall/foliage-tracker
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