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fighting in-front of your children…
It is inevitable that you and your spouse will have a disagreement in front of your kids. How you handle these disagreements can have a great impact on them. If you choose to work through conflict with your spouse in front of your kids, here are a few things to be aware of….
How NOT to fight:
❌ Never attack one another physically or emotionally. That’s domestic violence.
❌ Don’t manipulate, intimidate, or threaten your spouse. Threatening to walk out, leave the marriage, or do something that is hurtful or permanent can leave scars that wound for years.
❌ Never put the kids in the middle of your argument. They should not be choosing sides or used as a pawn to help you win your argument.
What NOT to fight about in-front of the kids:
There are some things that are simply a bad idea to argue about in front of the kids.
If you’re going to fight in front of the kids, then you should definitely make up in front of the kids. (No, not that kind of “make up.” Shame on you! 😳 ) A hug and a kiss in front of the kids is plenty. Verbally affirming your love, respect, and commitment for one another also sends the message that your commitment to one another is bigger than the disagreement.
Remember: Arguing in front of your children can be damaging to them, especially when it’s not done in a healthy and productive manner.
sure signs you have (or are) a good friend
Am I a good friend? That’s a great introspective, self-aware kinda question! To find the answer, you could do what any sensible person would do—take a bunch of online quizzes and see if the internet thinks you’re a good friend. (I was everything from a “BFF” to a “just-okay friend.”) OR you could ask yourself this question: “What am I looking for in a friend?”
A good friend:
1. shows up.
2. lets you be yourself…
3. … while helping you be your best self.
4. is self-aware.
5. is empathetic.
6. is trustworthy.
7. is fun, introduces you to new experiences, and helps you grow.
What you are looking for in a friend — be that person! Being a good friend and having good friends are two essential things in life.