Build an Unbreakable Marriage Right from the Start! 

PLUS! Get a discount on your marriage license.* 

Marriage changes things. In amazing ways aaaaand not-so-amazing ways. That’s why we created Preparing for Marriage.

Prepare for forever, today.

Cultivating a thriving marriage isn’t always easy. It takes skills and intentionality. It takes two willing people, coming to the table, embracing vulnerability, and committing to being better, together. Preparing For Marriage is an online course that makes learning those healthy relationship skills FUN. You’ll learn how to communicate clearly, fight fairly, find true intimacy, navigate in-laws and boundaries (and so much more) so you can create the foundation for an unbreakable marriage. All the essential tools you’ll need are jam-packed into 8 fun and fast-paced lessons with videos and worksheets to do together, guided by relationship experts.

How you’ll build an unbreakable marriage:

✅ You’ll get 8 essential lessons that you can work on when you want & where you want.

✅ Each lesson is divided into 3 parts: “Past You,” “Present You,” and “Future You.” Each part has a brief video led by marriage experts, Reggie & Lauren. You’ll have questions to talk through together and a handout to dive deeper. 

✅ After watching the videos and completing the lesson, there will be a quick pop-quiz* to make sure you’re getting the information you need! (And remembering it!)

✅ BONUS: You’ll have access to Reggie & Lauren by email every step of the way to answer any questions or just give you a little encouragement!

*If you live in a state where a discount is offered on your marriage license for completing premarital education or counseling, these quizzes are mandatory for you to qualify.

OUT OF 4,227 PEOPLE SURVEYED…

99%

of engaged couples say First Things First’s resources gave them skills to build a healthy marriage.

HERE’S WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY ABOUT PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE ONLINE…

“Thank you so much for offering this course! It was so helpful for my fiancé and myself as we prepare for marriage. We appreciate so much the work that you all are doing!”

“My fiancé and I finished our preparing for marriage course, and we are so incredibly thankful for something like this being available… The course was challenging in the best ways and definitely brought us closer by the end! The house exercise and the intimacy discussion were some of our favorite parts.”

“Lots of very interesting but necessary conversations have arisen, that I do not think would have happened without this platform.  We are looking forward to continuing to use this service as we grow in our marriage and look forward to the next couple we can pass this resource to.”

HOW IT WORKS

PURCHASE & ACCESS

Purchase Preparing for Marriage and you’ll receive email instructions on how to access the course by logging in to your membership on our website.

WATCH & DOWNLOAD

Choose a lesson, watch the videos, have some great conversations together, and download the corresponding handout!

CONNECT DEEPER

Put the tools you’ll gain into practice! Use them to turn up the connection with your future spouse and prepare you both for marriage!

The 8 Essential Lessons Every Engaged Couple Needs to Know

LESSON 1: WHAT TO EXPECT (AND WHAT YOU ALREADY DO)

Take a look at the expectations you have for marriage — and the expectations your fiancé has, too — and find out what to do with them!

LESSON 2: WHAT GLASSES ARE YOU LOOKIN’ THROUGH?

It’s easy to get caught up in the ways you and your partner are different. But what if those differences could actually benefit your upcoming marriage?

LESSON 3: IS IT REALLY THE HARDEST PART OF MARRIAGE?

Communication. We’ve all heard that it’s the hardest part. But is it? We don’t think so! Get the tools you need to ace communication in your marriage.

LESSON 4: (IT’S NOT JUST ABOUT SEX!)

This lesson is all about intimacy — and we’re not just talking sex! From emotional intimacy to experiential intimacy, you’ll be guided through all you need to know to have great intimacy. (And great sex!)

LESSON 5: WHAT’S A MARRIAGE WITHOUT A LITTLE CONFLICT?

Oof. Conflict. Very few enjoy it, and no one likes to talk about it! But that’s exactly why we’re here to talk about it. But conflict doesn’t have to be something that tears you apart!

LESSON 6: IT AIN’T ABOUT THE MONEY (MONEY, MONEY)

Yaaaaay finances! Said no one, ever. *Except that one person. You are an exception.* Money can be tricky in marriage. But we’ve got a few tricks up our sleeves, too!

LESSON 7: YOU’RE PUSHING ME TO THE EDGE

The word “boundaries” can cause a whole lot of triggers in most people. But by the end of this lesson, we know you’ll see them as a great thing for your marriage!

LESSON 8: IN-LAWS, PARENTING, KIDS, OH MY!

Family is complicated. No matter how wonderful (or not-so-wonderful) your own family is, bringing a new person into a family has a whole lot of challenges!

MEET YOUR GUIDES

REGGIE MADISON

Between being married to his wife Erika since 2004 and the 7 kids they have, Reggie’s got a few tricks up his sleeve! PLUS, he’s been with First Things First since 2015, and has a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree from Vanderbilt University. The guy’s got a lot of good marriage tips and tools to give you!

LAUREN HALL

As the President of First Things First, Lauren knows a thing or two! She’s been married to her husband Daniel since 2014 and they have a fun-loving boy named Strider. Not only is she here for the lighthearted laughs and good times, but she’s also got a whole lot of wisdom to share with you!

What’s this about a discount?

You might qualify for a hefty discount on your marriage license!

If you live in TN or GA and have completed this course, you are eligible for a discount on your marriage license! Just follow these instructions to get your certificate:

  1. Complete Preparing for Marriage Online. (When you sign up, you’ll receive an email with more instructions on how to get the discount!)
  2. Send us an email when you complete the course.
  3. Our team will double-check our system to make sure you completed all courses and all quizzes, then we’ll mail you a notarized certificate of completion!
  4. Take this certificate with you when you go to get your marriage license.

Wait a minute — So you’re basically SAVING money to take this course.

You’ll be keeping money IN YOUR POCKET when you enroll in this course? Yup! A TN marriage license on average costs $97. However, if you complete a premarital preparation course, you qualify for $60 off!

That means you’ll keep money in your pocket!

Why is this free?

As a non-profit, it’s our mission to offer as many resources as possible at as low of a cost as possible. Thanks to the grants and generous donations we’ve received this year, we are thrilled to be able to offer this resource (a $29.99 value) for absolutely free!

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