“…and they both lived happily ever after.”
YEAH RIGHT. They both had to deal with conflict over sex, money, and parenting. They both had to handle frequent miscommunication. They often felt disconnected. Sometimes, they just got on each other’s nerves. Often, the spark just wasn’t there. What made them HEROES in their marriage story is that they never gave up!
We don’t know about that “happily ever after” fairytale stuff, but we do know you can be happily married.
Sometimes we settle, we coexist, we go along to get along, or we just try to keep the damage to a minimum. There are no perfect marriages. There are also no unicorns. So what? You can always Maximize Your Marriage. You know what’s NOT a mythical creature? Your marriage being BETTER than you could ever imagine.
Wherever your marriage is today, that’s where Maximize Your Marriage starts your next chapter.
In every great story, the characters face obstacles. The story of your marriage is no different. But now you’ll get the tools you need and even some guides to help you overcome the obstacles. You can completely turn your story around or make sure it stays headed in the right direction. Hey, it’s your story. Write what comes next.
Here’s how you’ll write the next chapter of your marriage story:
✅ You’ll receive seven modules that you can work on when you want & where you want.
✅ Each module features a brief video led by marriage experts, Gena & Chris, explaining a common marriage obstacle and how to overcome it.
✅ After watching the video, you’ll download materials to help you personalize the key marriage concept for your unique marriage.
✅ You’ll turn ideas into actions with the “For Me,” “For Us,” and “For Our Future” sections in each module’s accompanying handout. (You can work on these materials as a couple or on your own. Either way, your story will be improved.)
✅ You’ll have access to Gena & Chris by email every step of the way to answer any questions or just give you a little encouragement. (THIS is what makes Maximize Your Marriage customized & personalized!)
Why is this free?
As a non-profit, it’s our mission to offer as many resources as possible at as low of a cost as possible. Thanks to the grants and generous donations we’ve received this year, we are thrilled to be able to offer this resource (a $79.99 value) for absolutely free!
HOW IT WORKS
PURCHASE & ACCESS
Purchase Maximize Your Marriage and you’ll receive email instructions on how to access the video by logging in to your membership on our website.
WATCH & DOWNLOAD
Choose a Module (go in order or pick the biggest obstacle you’re currently facing), discuss the pre-video reflection question, watch the video, then complete the corresponding handout!
ENJOY THE PLOT TWISTS
Use the information, activities, and your exclusive marriage guides to change the direction of your marriage.
THE DETAILS
MODULE 1: We Can’t Stop Fighting
Main Idea: Your conflict, handled well, is actually healthy.
MODULE 2: The Spark Is Gone
Main Idea: Boosting your sexual intimacy usually takes a boost in your emotional intimacy.
MODULE 3: We Don’t Connect Anymore
Main Idea: Your connection must be a priority. You can make it one with time and intentionality.
MODULE 4: We Can Never Get On The Same Page
Main Idea: You and your spouse can be different and still be on the same page.
MODULE 5: I Feel Totally Misunderstood
Main Idea: You or your spouse feeling misunderstood is a bridgeable communication gap.
MODULE 6: I Don’t Feel Like I Can Trust My Spouse
Main Idea: Going from distrust to trust is a process that involves both of you.
MODULE 7: I Just Want To Give Up
Main Idea: Your marriage is more resilient than you might think.
MEET YOUR GUIDES
Chris Ownby
Clearly, Chris is only here for his good looks and witty banter. Definitely not his three college degrees or Master’s in Family Life Science. *cough* show-off *cough* Chris has been married to his wife Kristin since 2004, and they have two daughters, Kendall and Lily. In his free time, Chris loves spending time outdoors – camping, hiking and fishing.
Gena Ellis
Gena is a straight-talking sanguine who’s been in the relationship biz for over two decades (so she’s seen a thing or two). With a Master’s in Counseling Psychology, she’s not only got the street smarts, she’s got the book smarts, too. She married her college sweetheart, Edward, in 1994. They are the proud parents of three sons. In her free time, she enjoys reading, crocheting, and watching football with her family.
