April 21, 2023
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ā¤ļø Treat your family well by doing these 7 things.
š¤³ The school year is almost over & screen time has increased. Help them finish the school year strong with less tech.
āļø Bad days with the kids are bound to happen– How you handle them makes all the difference.
š Have some fun & celebrate Earth Day as a family.
š«£ Guiding your adult child can be tricky, help them learn to make better decisions on their own.
tips & tricks for growth
establish quiet time for your fam
Some people saw How to Establish a Family Quiet Time and thought, āYeah right. Thereās just no way. You havenāt been to my house. You donāt know my kids.ā
Iām not going to try and convince you on the importance of quiet time. I havenāt met a parent yet who doesnāt crave it when they are home all day with their children. Iām just going to empower you to establish a quiet time.
š§ Step 1: Get Your Mind Right.
Youāve got to believe it can be done. They may resist and scream. They may dig deep into their bag of tricks to block the entry of a quiet time into your home. Donāt believe the lie. They donāt know whatās good for them.Ā Hear the voice of the man with 7 kids: āIt can be done. You can do it.ā It may not be perfect the first time, but whatever you do, donāt believe the lie. Which takes us to step #2.
š Step 2: Prepare To Be Persistent.
If at first you donāt succeed, try, try again. You didnāt ride your bike perfectly the first time you took off the training wheels. They donāt believe that youāre serious unless you stick with it. Kids are wired to resist anything that their parents say is good for them at first, at least it seems that way. Itās not impossible just because it didnāt work out the first time. Youāre going to have to stick with it.
forgive yourself + grow from here
Forgiveness is often defined as letting go of feelings of resentment, anger, or bitterness toward someone who has wronged you. Forgiving others can be tough. But we all can forgive. While you may be able to forgive others, how are you at forgiving yourself for mistakes youāve made or wrongs youāve committed?
Forgiving yourself requires empathy, compassion, kindness, and understanding. We all make mistakes. However, there is power in acknowledging, learning from, and moving beyond our mistakes.
So, how can you take steps to forgive yourself?
š Accept Responsibility
šĀ Show Remorse
šĀ Apologize and Restore Trust
šĀ Focus on Renewal
Making mistakes is a normal part of life. Weāre all guilty of it, but what matters is that we learn from our mistakes and move forward.
let’s get REALatable
It’s time to take things a step further & get a little intimate with a Q & A. What do you say?š Learn a little bit about the faces behind all of this relationship gold. This week we’re chatting withĀ Margo Mathis,Ā wife to her husband of 3 years, Jebediah, new mom to a baby girl, dog momma, and the Email Specialist here at First Things First. Let’s get REALatableš & learn a little bit about her:
Q: Favorite place you’ve traveled?
A: šļøĀ Andros, Greece. My grandfather immigrated from there as a young adult and I still have lots of family members who live there. The island is home to many beautiful beaches & the most delicious food! The plane ride there though…
Q: Best part of motherhood?
A: š¤©Ā Watching my girl learn & master new skills everyday! It’s so amazing to see her little mind working and her excitement for herself.
Q:Ā Movie or a show?
A: š I like watching shows better because I don’t have to commit for a longerĀ stretchĀ of time– Don’t @ me for watching my shows just as long as the movie. HAHA
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