“It’s been 5 days, 6 hours, 23 minutes and 9 seconds since we last had sex.”
“Again? Didn’t we just have sex last week?”
“I’m just not in the mood.”
“Am I not attractive to you?”
“If you would just _____, then I’d want to have sex.”
“If we just had sex, then I’d want to ____________.”
“I’ve had such a long, stressful day. Sex would definitely help me unwind.”
“I am so overwhelmed and exhausted. Sex is the last thing I want.”
Maybe you’re feeling rejected because you keep trying to initiate but it isn’t working. Or misunderstood, because you really want to connect and be intimate, but you don’t have anything left to give after a long, stressful day.
Maybe you’re frustrated because you’ve tried upping your romance game but your spouse either doesn’t notice or it doesn’t seem to make any difference.
Maybe you’re scared that your spouse doesn’t find you attractive anymore and you’re worried that they’ll find intimacy elsewhere.
In order to have a deeper intimacy in your marriage, you need practical skills and simple strategies to eliminate the barriers that keep you stuck in a sexless rut. Luckily, we’ve spent countless years researching and sharing these crucial and transformative skills with married couples just like you. We’ve been working face-to-face with married couples struggling to connect intimately for decades. But as you can guess, 2020 changed how we could offer support and guidance. As we shifted to an entirely digital presence, we realized just how much inaccurate and potentially harmful advice was out there.
It’s easier than ever to think you’re helping your marriage when you’re actually really hurting it. We are passionate about helping couples thrive inside and outside of the bedroom. It’s our bread and butter. Seriously. It’s what wakes us up in the morning and fills our cup, knowing that another marriage is on the path to healing and developing a deeper connection. When we discovered these 5 moves, we knew we had something LIFE-CHANGING that we HAD to share with as many couples as possible.
Even if you implement just ONE of these 5 moves, you’ll start seeing a change in your marriage immediately. The more you put these into practice, the more you’ll…
✅ Jumpstart your sex drive and keep that engine running smoothly
✅ Understand what makes your spouse feel connected
✅ Feel confident in saying what you like and don’t like
✅ Conquer the bedroom buzzkills so you can get it on more often
✅ See those sparks ignite a renewed passion for your spouse
✅ See your marriage transform into a deeply fulfilling partnership
For Lifetime Access
Discover Deeper Intimacy in Your marriage is an online course that is designed to guide you and your spouse on a transformational journey to deepen your emotional and physical connection! However, we understand that sometimes it’s not easy to get your spouse on board with change. So you can absolutely choose to do this course and start the process on your own first. You can even stay in your PJs or sweats (we won’t judge!) while you go through each module at your own pace. All the essential tools to transform your marriage are packed into 5 modules guided by relationship experts, Julie Baumgardner and Reggie Madison.
✅ You’ll receive access to 5 modules that you can work on when you want & where you want.
✅ Each module features a brief video led by marriage experts, Julie & Reggie, explaining a move you can make to increase intimacy.
✅ After watching the video, you’ll download a guide filled with intimacy tips, insights, and ideas you can use to increase passion in and out of the bedroom.
✅ You’ll turn ideas into actions with activities and questions to ask yourself and each other.
✅ BONUS: You’ll have access to Julie & Reggie by email every step of the way to answer any questions or just give you a little encouragement.
with our 30-day money-back guarantee.
Learn to understand each other’s expectations and perspectives of intimacy, which will help you create a deeper, more connected marriage over time.
Uncover the 6 types of intimacy and how to use them to strengthen the foundation of your marriage and enhance your daily connection.
Figure out exactly what you and your spouse need from each other in order to take your intimacy to the next level.
Pinpoint what exactly is keeping you from a deeper intimacy with your spouse and learn how to beat those buzzkills, together!
Surefire ways to get those flames of passion burning HOT once again… and again, and again, and again…
of married couples say First Things First’s resources made their marriage better.
“This course literally saved my marriage. It showed us exactly what we needed to do to get the passion in (and out of) the bedroom back! Such a GAME CHANGER!”
“This course has allowed me and my spouse to really share what we need from each other. Now the SPARK is back! We feel more connected than EVER before. THANK YOU!”
“Julie and Reggie are really relatable and they GET IT. This course is totally worth the time and money.”
Purchase Discover Deeper Intimacy in Your Marriage and you’ll receive email instructions on how to access the course immediately.
Watch each video, download the couple guides, and do the activities at your own pace.
Feel the passion grow in your marriage and enjoy a deeper intimacy together.
Julie, former President and CEO of First Things First, has been married to her husband Jay since 1989 and they are more in love today than ever before. Besides her years of real-life marriage experience, Julie is a Certified Family Life Educator and Certified Crisis Intervener. As a passionate champion for families, Julie currently chairs the Board of Directors for the National Association for Relationship & Marriage Education. She is a nationally sought-after speaker at conferences, parenting seminars and marriage retreats where she gives talks on strengthening marriage, preparing for parenthood and navigating the complexities of motherhood. Julie enjoys gardening, horseback riding, cooking, working with children, and mentoring couples.
Reggie has been married to his wife Erika since 2004 and they have 7 kids… (yes, you read that right — 7!) so you know he knows all about intimacy. His marriage is still alive and kickin’. (How do you think they’re making all those babies, hello?!) PLUS, he’s been with First Things First since 2015, and has a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree from Vanderbilt University. The guy’s got a lot of good marriage tips and tools to give you! Reggie enjoys spending time with family, playing and watching sports, reading, hiking and outdoor activities.
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