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How You Can Make Visitation Count

Many divorced parents face the reality of divided time with their children. Arrangements vary from weekend visitation to splitting time with each parent right down the middle. This often creates problems between the two homes: sometimes one parent is strict and the other is lenient, one parent may try to fill both parental roles, or perhaps one parent’s home is like a vacation spot.

Occasionally, parents refuse to work together for the good of the children out of spite for each other. This sets up an environment of competition, guilt and resentment, according to stepfamily expert, Elizabeth Einstein.

If you are divorced, how can you work together for the best interest of your child?

First, you must put your issues aside. It is helpful if both of you:

Each of you should have a plan in place for how to spend your time with the children.

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