The Difference a Dad Makes

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Pro-Football Player to Rookie Husband and Dad

When Buddy Curry was a professional football player, he thought life was all about him. “I made up my mind to have as much fun as possible,” said Curry, former Falcon inside linebacker and 1980 Defensive Rookie of the Year. Toward the end of my 8-year career, all the things I had been doing didn’t…

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A Father’s Love

Jeff Harrell worked long hours in the restaurant business when his daughter was born. Alyssa was 3 months old when Harrell realized that she clearly had no interest in being with him. “That’s when I knew things had to change,” shares Harrell. “I did not want my child to grow up not knowing me. My…

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Letters from Dad

Greg Vaughn lost his father to Alzheimer’s years ago. “I remember it like it was yesterday,” says Vaughn. “I know my dad loved me because he made sure our family was taken care of. But he never could say ‘I love you,’ or ‘Son, I am proud of you.’ That void left a hole in my…

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Fathering is Child’s Play

A young girl was touring the social worker through the home she shared with her father. When she came to her bedroom, she proudly showed the woman everything in her room. With big eyes and a huge smile, the little girl asked, “Would you like to see bombs away?” Hesitantly, the social worker said yes….

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Don’t Waste Father’s Day

Once a man took the day off to take his son fishing. His son was thrilled that his father would take a day away from important work to spend time with him, and he considered this day as one of the best days of his life. After the father passed away, his son found a diary…

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7 Ways Dads Can Connect With Their Kids

In the movie Overboard,  a man tricks a woman with amnesia into thinking she is a wife and the mother of four. Annie (the mother) gets fed up with the father for not spending time with his children. His response to her? He says he is a pal to his kids, and that he “brings…

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Dads and Moms Parent Differently

A dad looks, smells, sounds and acts differently than a mom. Understanding these differences are a child’s first experiences with diversity! Dads don’t “mother,” they “father,” and according to the Yale Child Study Center, there are beneficial differences between moms and dads. Here are some examples: When moms play with their children, they are more…

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20 Reasons Your Child Needs You

Your presence: 1.   Lets your child know that you love him/her. 2.   Provides your child with greater financial resources. 3.   Gives your child a positive role model. 4.   Provides your child with emotional support. 5.   Enhances your child’s self-esteem. 6.   Provides your child with guidance and discipline. 7.   Enhances your child’s intellectual development. 8.   Gives…

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7 Tips for Dads of Daughters

Joe Kelly knew his life would change when his twin daughters were born. He understood that he was stepping into a very important role as their father. What he didn’t count on was the dramatic impact these girls would have on him as a man and their father. “The uniqueness of the father-daughter relationship can deeply…

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How You Can Father From a Distance

Many men find themselves trying to father from a distance due to work, divorce or military deployment. Fathering from a distance can be especially trying with celebrations, plays and concerts often occurring during the week. How can dads stay connected while they are away and not feel like a third wheel upon their return? Brian Vander Werf…

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Dad’s Impact on Teens

For decades, research has indicated a strong correlation between involved fathers and child well-being. A 2009 study published in Child Development specifically continues this trend for preventing risky sexual behavior. Researchers led by Boston College Associate Professor Rebekah Levine Coley surveyed 3,206 teens, ages 13-18, annually for four years. They asked teens from two-parent homes about their sexual behavior and…

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How Fathers Can Engage With Their Daughters

How can fathers engage in the lives of their daughters? The following are some excellent tips from the National Center for Fathering: 1.  Involvement – Children need active participation in their lives. Time is more valuable to them than money. Schedule a time to meet regularly with your child, and spend time doing something children…

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Dads, Daughters and Valentine’s Day

Dad, don’t forget an important woman in your life on Valentine’s Day – your daughter. It’s never too early to establish a Valentine’s tradition to express your love to your daughter. A father’s love profoundly impacts a girl, and many believe that a woman takes her relationship with her father (good or bad) to the grave. The father/daughter…

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Why Dads Parent Differently

Learn how dads parent differently than moms.

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Kids Need Their Daddy

The pressures of fatherhood are great. On any given day, balancing work and family, finances and discipline usually rank at the top of the issue list. For years, our culture has told men that being a good provider equates to being a good dad. However, research is now sending a newsflash that it isn’t all about…

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How to Become Dad Ready

Don McKenna attended a First Things First fatherhood class when he and his wife, Missy, were expecting. “I saw a billboard about it and thought it looked interesting,” says McKenna. “I convinced a friend who was also expecting his first child to go with me. It totally was not what I was expecting. Hands down, it was…

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Why Dads Parent Differently

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Why Fathers Matter

Dr. Warren Farrell, psychologist and author of Father Child Reunion, was intrigued with why children with active fathers do so well. In an attempt to better understand it, he spent more than a decade analyzing worldwide research. “I knew when I started this research that dads were important, but I had no idea how important,” says Farrell….

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The Importance of Positive Male Role Models

Many boys today don’t know what it means to be a man because they don’t have a man in their lives. Sadly, children will go to bed tonight without saying goodnight to their father because he just isn’t there. Nearly one-fourth of America’s children live in mother-only families. Locally, 39 percent of Hamilton County families are headed…

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Quantity vs. Quality Time with Dad

On average, how much time do you spend with your children each week? How much time do your children think you spend with them? You’ve probably heard that quality time with your children, not the quantity, is what really matters. A study published in the Youth and Society Journal, however, questions that line of thinking. The study indicates that…

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Dad’s Role in a Daughter’s Marriage

Sometimes the closeness of a father/daughter relationship can interfere with the couple relationship. For example, one couple was arguing over purchasing a $600 set of dishes. According to the husband, they could not afford them. As a result, the wife was furious. When she told her father that her husband would not purchase the dishes, her…

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Fun Daddy-Daughter Dates

Date ideas your daughter will love: Have a tea party. Wash the car together. Go on a picnic in the park. Visit the zoo. Draw each other’s portrait in chalk on the sidewalk. Go roller skating. Go out for ice cream – OR make homemade ice cream. Watch a movie together. Go bowling. Attend a…

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Ways for Dad to Connect with Kids

Plan a regular time for Daddy/Child date to do something fun and adventurous. Write a short message to them on a stick-it note and hide it in their lunch. Let your child help you wash the car or fix something. Play a game with them – one that they want to play. If you like…

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The Value of Father-Daughter Relationships

Beth, a 26-year-old church secretary was in a particularly good mood. She was actually glowing when a friend asked if her boyfriend had proposed to her. “Her response took me by surprise,” says Ken Canfield, author of Seven Secrets of Effective Fathers and The Heart of a Father. “She told me her father initiated a phone call to her…

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I’m a Dad! Now What?

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The Difference a Dad Makes

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How Children Spell Love

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